Learning To Love: Thoughts On Faith Formation In Young People

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One of the questions that seems most prevalent in youth ministry circles–outside of “how many students are in your youth group”–is how do you know if a teenager is growing in their faith?

It seems most of us long for some definable or measurable way to record faith formation. And I wonder if this quest, though often rightly motivated and sincere, is missing an invaluable piece of the puzzle.

Because maybe measuring faith isn’t something that is so easy to detect…at least not in the way we want to measure it.

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Facing Worry And Anxiety

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The year of 2018 has started off with some incredibly positive and life-affirming moments. But, in the spirit of full disclosure, there’s also been a struggle that has resurfaced for me. Lately, I’ve found myself struggling with the nagging issue of worry.

Amidst many good and joyous things, there’s been this prolonged and consistent battle. So, I’ve been learning, yet again, what it means to confront worry and anxiety in my life.

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Why Lady Bird Was The Movie We Needed In 2017

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Every year, Marissa and I watch as many movies as we can, especially as we move closer to the Oscar season. Admittedly, I’m not a movie critic or a film aficionado. I just like movies, especially ones that impact my heart and soul.

Lady Bird is a film that I fell in love with instantly. This coming of age story was hauntingly real in its portrayal of the early two thousands and some of my experiences in school and growing up.

It took me not only back in time, but deeper inside time. And that’s a story I won’t soon forget.

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Christmas Means God Is With Us

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Honestly, I love Christmas. I love it all–the fanfare, the pageantry, and the traditions our family has developed over the years.

But I also know that this season can be draining and distracting, and there’s a huge possibility that I’ll miss it. So, as we find ourselves in this joyous time of the year, I’m thinking about what it means to slow down and remember what this season is really about.

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