What Happens When You Stop Caring About What Other People Think

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One of the most debilitating moves in our lives is to overly care about what other people think. I know this has been a constant crutch for me–caring and making decisions in my life based on the whims and desires of others.

Everything is done through the filter of “How will they perceive me? Will I be liked, accepted, praised?” It’s a cycle that has no good ending.

But what if there was another way to live? A way that didn’t allow the thoughts and opinions of others to control us? What if we could break free and experience the joy of living our true selves?

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Change Is Good For Your Soul

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I recently re-read a little book that has had a profound impact on me and countless others. It’s called Who Moved My Cheese? by Ken Blanchard. The book is a short story about how to face change in our lives.

The book asks questions and challenges the reader to shift their perspective when it comes to change.

-What if we lived our lives not from a place of fear, but from a place of curiosity and wonder? What if new opportunities weren’t stressors in our lives, but invitations to grow and learn?

The truth is, I’m learning that we have the potential to view change in a positive way. And when we do, change takes on a new meaning.

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Experience Is > Google

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We live in a world of information overload. We’ve all felt it, too.

Google this. Ask Siri about that. Find the answer to any and everything you’re looking for. And we love it, don’t we? I don’t know how I drove anywhere before GPS or watched a movie without the help of IMBD.

But I often wonder if we’ve mistakenly replaced an experience with access to information. And maybe what’s at stake is not our performance or ease of access or convenience, but the condition of our souls.

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Loving Life In The Rut

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This year has been good, but–and this is a big BUT–it’s also been incredibly difficult and unbelievably challenging. For much of this fall season, we’ve felt like we’re stuck in a rut.

Setbacks, financial struggles, and disappointment. These and more describe what the past few months have been like. In the turmoil, though, we’ve been reminded of something lately–the rut, as tough as it is at times, is life. And life is good. And we’re trying to love it.

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